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Most of the problems in life stem from one cause: we can't get ourselves to take some type of action. Whether it's changing our diet and working out or taking a risk and going back to school, actions stand between where we are and where we want to be.
ReplyDeleteAs you already know, it's not that we don't know what to do - the answers to what we need to do are all around us. The problem is getting ourselves to follow through and do it.
So what's the problem? Why don't we simply get up and go? As you know, it's not that easy.
Fear, sacrifice, procrastination, ingrained habits...so many obstacles stand in the way of a happier, more successful life. Every step of the way you have amazingly powerful forces working against you trying to keep you from changing.
With this in mind, it's easy to understand why people have such a difficult time improving their lives and achieving their goals.
But what if you could make obstacles like fear and procrastination disappear in an instant? What if you could close your eyes for just a second or two and immediately feel driven to do whatever it took to get what you wanted?
This is the rare gift of the greatest successes on earth, the special ability only a handful of people have that allows them to experience a quality of life far beyond your wildest dreams.
Some of them don't even know they have this unbelievable skill; they just seem to get whatever they want, whenever they want it. Others understand what it is and how best to use it. But for the rest of us, this unique gift is a complete and utter mystery.
Not anymore.
The Ability that Will Change You Forever
Just like riding a bike or playing piano, motivation is a skill that can be learned and mastered - and with ease. It's not that getting yourself to act is difficult; it's simply that no one has ever shared with you the entire process in a way that was easy to understand and apply, if they taught you at all.
To solve this problem for the millions of people just like you who want to live richer, more rewarding lives, I dedicated several years to uncovering the secrets and outlined every step of the process in The Motivated Mind - and made the entire guide easy to understand and even easier to use.
Simply by following six short steps you will gain the rare ability of instant motivation. You will actually be able to overcome all of your fears and worries and instantly feel driven to act toward your goals.
Just imagine what you could achieve in your lifetime with the ability to motivate action at the drop of a hat. You could be like one of the many readers who have made The Motivated Mind a part of their lives and enjoy experiences like...
* A career you absolutely love. Challenging, exciting, and satisfying work you can't wait to get to in the morning. Co-workers you count as good friends and a knowledgeable boss who greatly admires you and your work.
* A brand new body - in shape, attractive, and healthy. More energy and juice than ever before, without a hint of the old aches and pains, not to mention the worries that come from living an unhealthy lifestyle. And best of all - a longer life.
* Earning enough money to save, invest, and prepare for a comfortable retirement. Being able to donate to those in need and provide for your loved ones. And finally, enjoying a few perks in life - a new home, a new car, and vacations to the tropics.
* Finding it easy to make new friends and develop relationships that make you feel on top of the world. No more worrying about fitting in or trying to live up to everyone's expectations. Being comfortable in your own skin and in every situation.
* Feeling happy. Truly happy with who you are and where you're going. Enjoying the peace of mind that comes from being in total control of your life and its future.
How would you like to experience these things on a daily basis for the rest of your life? You can, and The Motivated Mind will show you exactly how to make it happen.
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Wednesday, July 1
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Dear Friends,
With as much honesty and openness as you can muster, answer the following questions...
1. Do you absolutely love what you do for a living?
2. Are you in excellent shape both inside and out?
3. Do you have as much money as you need and want?
4. Are your relationships with friends and family meaningful and rewarding?
5. Are you living each day as the person you'd always hoped you'd become?
My wish is that you were able to answer yes to each question, but it's not always easy to make these things happen, is it? You work hard every day and have the best of intentions, but still you struggle to create the life you really want to live.
Perhaps you can even relate to several of the common problems described below:
* Heading off to an unchallenging, unfulfilling, and low-paying job without any prospects of a bright and satisfying career in the future. Spending forty hours every week working for someone you don't admire or respect.
* Feeling unhappy and guilty about the way you look and afraid of the health risks that come with being out of shape. Running out of energy and feeling exhausted even before the day has run out. Wanting to change and live a healthier lifestyle but struggling to make it happen.
* Living paycheck to paycheck without being able to put money aside for savings, investments, or retirement. Feeling guilty about not being able to provide the nicer things in life for your family, and terrified at the thought of growing old without enough money to get by.
* Feeling alone and disconnected from others - even in a long-term relationships. Wanting to make new friends and enjoy fulfilling relationships with family and friends but unable to make it happen.
* Living by routine without any joy or excitement, unable to change negative habits or patterns. Doing the same things day after day and never feeling truly happy or fulfilled. Having to deal with constant worry, stress, and feelings of hopelessness.
While not every scenario hit home, I'm sure you've dealt with at least a handful of these feelings in your life. And you're not alone. Literally millions of people just like you are hoping to live a happier, more successful life, but the sad reality is that most will never find what they're looking for.
They'll live their entire lives without ever experiencing a rich, lively, exciting, and immensely rewarding life - and it's not through a lack of desire or effort.
If you haven't created the life you've always wanted to experience, it's not because you don't work hard or don't deserve it. And it's definitely not because you're simply a bad person.
No, the actual reason you're not getting everything you want in life is because you're missing a single critical skill.
And I can give it to you.
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Be ever on the lookout for opportunities where you can teach others to better their lot in life. It will amaze you how opportunities present themselves when you are viewed in the light of being a person who genuinely cares for, and wants to see others succeed at their maximum capacity.
ReplyDelete“Each new day is an opportunity to leave behind our short-comings, and erase any missed opportunities. While it’s true we are given a clean canvas, to paint on it any picture of success we wish, we must believe this to be a fact, and pursue each new day as though it is absolutely true.”
“The people you interact with are the sum total of all the success you are likely to acquire in your life. Knowing that, is your peer group moving you in the direction of your overall potential?”
When it comes to achieving your goals, keep in mind the old saying, “out of sight, out of mind”. Anytime that we allow ourselves to lose sight of our desired goal it can end up creating a real kink in the goal setting process. Why you ask? The answer is simple — because our lives can get hectic and if we allow ourselves to take our eye off what we want, life has a way of putting some other action that requires our attention in its place. It’s really that simple.
ReplyDeleteSo what’s the solution you ask? Keep lists, to do lists, action tasks… whatever you choose to call them, the point is… keep your goals nearby and in plain sight, and just as important always write down those smaller tasks you can take on an ongoing basis that will support you in reaching your larger goals.
Mark it done - After we’ve finished a task, very often there’s an immediate need to literally strike that task off our list. While this is normal, far better might be to follow the idea that a reader of my newsletter sent in to me…
ReplyDeleteRather than simply “striking it off the list” they choose to mark it done!
On the surface one might not see much of a difference here. However, by marking it “done” it is easier for us to look back on our achievements and see the progress we’ve made in our efforts.
There is an interesting saying that states, “If we want to make steady gains we have to see clearly where we’re headed.” Keeping clear records of our successes serves as a nice guiding post for doing just that.
Here’s hoping this message finds you taking the time to write down and track your daily accomplishments. Doing so will greatly help to guide you in the direction of your goals and dreams which in turn does wonders towards making them a reality.
Setting goals is wonderful; it confirms that we’ve taken those first awkward steps towards attaining what we desire in our lives. The simple fact that you’ve taken the time to plan out what you want to achieve puts you in a distinct class.
ReplyDeleteAmazingly very few people take the time to keep a running list of goals. Sadly, even fewer people actually work their goals. So take the time right now to give yourself a little pat on the back! You deserve it.
You’re part of the elite group of people who have chosen to take an active role in their own success. If the whole idea of goal setting (and goal achieving) is a new one to you, don’t worry; the important thing is that you’ve decided to take the bull by the horns and get started!
Here’s a technique to add substance to the goals you’ve set! Remember, the more real the goal is in your mind, the easier your subconscious mind can get around your desires and jump into action and start helping you realize them!
This technique assumes you’ve already decided on the things you’d like to achieve. If you’re not there yet then take the time to record your goal, dreams and the action steps you believe are necessary to reach them. Be sure to give yourself the room to adjust those items as needed. It’s a journey and one that you should derive enjoyment from. Remember, you’re taking the word chance out of the equation and are taking an active role in the reaching the destinations you set for yourself.
After you’ve listed out your goals and dreams, the next step is to actually visualize yourself reaching your intended goal. It is through visualization that we can actually program ourselves to reach that which we desire.
My friend, it’s one thing for you to say, “I want to get a new job”, and quite another to say, “In my dream job I will be in charge of marketing at a growth oriented company. I will find employment in such and such an industry. To reach this destination I will send out a certain amount of resumes and do follow-ups with those companies until I secure the employment I am looking for”.
The idea is that you’re rehearsing these events in your mind. You’re giving them vast amounts of power because as the saying goes. That which the mind can conceive, it can achieve. When using visualization with your goals try and do it as vividly as you can. The more real they appear the better.
Another technique is to imagine yourself sitting in a movie theater. See your goals and dreams playing out before you on a large screen. Find a technique that works for you (the key word being what works for you).
Hopefully from the example above you see the difference that a little visualization can play in making our goals more “concrete” in our minds? To say I want to find my dream job is one thing, but to identify it and imagine myself doing this job (and taking the necessary steps to become employed) creates an added energy that will propel you towards making it a reality!
Instead of seeing someone who takes the time to complain about a product or service you’ve rendered as a problem, try and reframe it for what it really is - an opportunity to grow, learn, and ultimately become better for the experience.
ReplyDeleteIt’s been said many times before that we grow through life’s challenges, as opposed to those times when it’s smooth sailing.
When another person takes the time to share what’s wrong in their mind be thankful, because so few people actually do. Instead they go silently into the marketplace sharing their negative experience with others.
For this reason alone isn’t it better to correct any disagreements early on? If the other person asks for a refund strive to the very best of your ability to give it without hesitation or making it difficult on them.
In virtually every case you will find that you’re always better off when the other person leaves the experience feeling good about it even if you weren’t able to deliver on what you both originally agreed upon (so long as things are made right when you part ways).
In the short-term you may feel that you’ve lost out, but in reality you have built trust and paved the path for the other person to potentially do business with you at another time. Not to mention you will be surprised by how many people will actually go about singing your praises to others as they share what a rare customer service experience they had, “with the person who really wanted to make sure I left the transaction happy”. Because unfortunately so few people take this approach, when you do so you will put yourself at a distinct advantage in the marketplace.
If you can develop the ability to render this level of service with a smile you will differentiate yourself in a positive light. The rewards for being viewed in this way among others is well worth the effort it takes to do so.
When you build trust through your actions you strengthen your character. Your character determines your influence. Your influence determines the level of success you will attain - be it personally or professionally.
Make a point to ask. When we simply assume we know the answer to something there is a chance that we’re going to be incorrect. It may very well be that our feelings are misguided and that in actuality the other person is simply waiting for us to help them in their buying decision. The reality is that we aren’t mind readers — as long as we are careful to ask tactfully, are not pushy, and keep the other persons best interest in mind then we have a duty to ask.
ReplyDeleteAsking is the surest way to get to the answer you’re longing to know. One thing is for sure, not asking is certain to get the results you don’t want. Ask, you may not always get the answer you hope for, but if you don’t ask, you’re absolutely certain to get the answer you don’t want — which is only going to put you where you started. Ask, you’ve got nothing to lose, and everything to gain.
“When you take the time to do the necessary research you put yourself at a distinct advantage over the masses who simply will not go through the trouble to do so. Success more than anything is being consistent in taking action where necessary, making sure the steps you’re taking will lead to the destination you desire — and when a change in course is needed the willingness to take it.”
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